My Husband

i tell u about my husband :D

this is my beloved one, Budiarjo, he was born 31 years ago on June 16 and we both are a truly gemini, maybe it's explained a lot why i understand his ambitions, his point of view about alot of things... we are similar actually. and it's one reason why we decided to get married.


He was my senior at highschool, but i'd never met him at highschool and neither had he although he knew some of my friends. so how we both met then? it was idul fitri 2004 when i got an incoming sms from unknow number which was saying a celebration of ied. to be polite i replied the sms and asked who was sent me this sms because i didnt have the number in my phonebook... then there how we got to know each other and i found out that he was my senior at highschool. after some sms-es and calls we decided to have a blind date and made an appointment on sunday, 25th dec 2004 at Gramedia Blok M. he wore a yellow shirt, blue jins and a white-blue kets.. 'not bad' that was i thought about him that moment.


fisrt impression, he was a warm and a humble guy, friendly, talkative and really down to earth type. after the blind date, we didnt intensively communicate. since i forgot to bring my wallet at the blind date, he treated me and i promised to treated him back sometimes. and yes... we did meet for the 2nd time, went to movie, ate junk food..(ha ha ha.. murmer!!!). and at out 3rd date, on April 4th 2005, we went to Ancol (i know u'll laugh at me....the idea to ancol just popped out that time).. we talked about a lot of things, our life, how we see our life, how we wanted the future life be...and when he walked me home, he asked me this question : "mau dicoba aja ga jalan sama aku" hmmm... a diplomatic question and none romantic at all.. ha ha ha...i just answered : 'why not'....since then he called me with a nick name 'yang'. we've dated for about 7 months and got married on 16th Januari 2005


it is not an easy thing to live a life with this guy, we struggle for a better life, we work hard to make all our dreams come true. but with this so much love and blessed i've got, with a smart cute little guy named Raka, all the burdens seems so light. we cry when we are happy and laugh when we are sad..

Mas Budi, with all my finiteness as a human being, .. i'm trying my best to be a friend, a lover a wife, and a mother... I love you


-Q-

Parcel, Kue....

Menjelang natal dan tahun baru, dikantor pasti banyak kue-kue dan parcel2 yang dikirimin dari pihak ketiga (he he he...) kue2nya enak2 Bo! kemaren dpt opera, kadang cheese cake, ato fully chocolate cake, kadang ice cake, lapis legit, lapis surabaya... macem macem deh... malah tadi ada yg ngirim parcel buah silikon!!! gila itu buah guedhe gueddhhee banget... kiwinya segede pear, pear nya se gede melon, kebayang dong melon nya segede apa?ha ha ha.. makanya gw curiga itu buah disuntik silikon barang kali...

tapi sedihnya itu kue2 dan parcel2 itu bukan untukku hiks.. hiks..hiks.... klo yg dikirimin baik sih, dipotong n dibagi-bagi, tp klo yg m***t ya dibawa pulang..ya gpp juga sih, emang rejekinya yg dikirimin kan...

pernah bos dikantor dapet kiriman anggrek bulan 4 pot...

ggeezzzz, cantik banget, tp sayang besoknya udah langsung ga ada alias diselamatkan ke rumahnya he he he.....tp yg gw bingung perasaan kantor gw ga pernah kirim2 ke counterparts or apa gitu... siapa butuh siapa kali yaa....maksudnya siapa yg butuh ya dia yg kirim dong... he he he...paling seneg klo ada kiriman bakso sama otak2 gilaaaa... enaaaakk bangeeettt

yo wis lah...

unek unek aja

hari ini rasanya cuapek berat... bolak balik ngejar2 kerjaan..(bukan mengejar mas mas ... well sometimes gw ngejar mas-mas OB itu juga sih...)

gw mulai kerja ditempat yang sekarang efektif bulan september 2002, training 7 bulan dan diangkat karyawan plus ditempatin di unit yg sekarang bulan juni 2004 berarti gw dah 5 taon bo disini dan dengan segala kekurangan dan keluhan yang diomongin orang lain (maksudnya gw jarang banget mengeluh ttg duka-dukanya kerja disini... tp temen or kolega gw banyak tuh yg ngeluh) gw tetep enjoy...

jadi main issue yg sering dikeluhkan adalah gaji yg relatif kecil untuk industri yang sama, kompensasi yang kurang dan sepertinya banyak hal yg menyudutkan kepentingan dan hak karyawan. dan ini udah di mulai since the first day i started worked here.... tp again itu orang2... gw bukannya membela diri ato sok suci, nope!!! not at all!!! gw sih mikirnya gini, gw ga pantes ngeluh klo gw ga sanggup cari yg lebih baik.. klo emang gw ga suka, ya gw harus keluar....ga ada yg terpaksa or dipaksa kerja disini, klo lo ga pindah dan ttp kerja bertaon-taon ditempat yg selalu lo keluhkan kurang inilah kurang itulah.. then the problem isnt in the company you worked for.. it's you who create your own problems... bukan begitu?

klo ada yg bilang 'gw terpaksa kerja disini, klo dpt yg laen juga ga bakal gw disini' see? do you see the problem and the solution at the same time rite?so.. what are doing here then... the answer is u need to be here, you need to get paid with that underpaid nominal... knp ga disyukuri aja sih... no pain no gain... klo mo cari yg 'lebih' effort nya juga kudu 'lebih'....

-Q-

Raka Ultah

Haappyy Birthday Raka....

Semoga kelak Raka jadi anak sholeh, pintar, selalu dimudahkan jalan hidupnya amiinnn.....

klo boleh minta, mungkin semua hal akan mama doa kan buat Kaka...

satu hal yang penting, mudah2an nambah umur jadi 2 tahun, keras kepalanya Kaka berkurang yaa...(eventhough i know from who you get that stubborn head..me :p )

terus juga mama minta maaf, ultah 1 dan 2 mungkin akan terlewatkan begitu aja tanpa dirayain ato pun makan2, ato pun kado2... mama dan ayah masih 'struggle' buat bayar hutang bengkel dulu nih, gpp ya nak.... tp mama janji beliin kereta dan tas.....ok...

-Q-

Goes... Goes....Goes.....

Goes...goes...goes..... (gowes-red)


Bukan bahasa inggris dengan kata dasar Go untuk orang ketiga yg harus ditambah es ya guys....

tapi ini kata2 gw buat Raka, yang suddenly this morning he can ride his 4 wheeled bicylce himself..biasanya didorongin ama mamanya...


Sepeda biru itu kita beliin waktu Raka ultah yang ke-1, masih inget beli sepedanya di pasar rumput.. tadinya sih mo beli sepeda yang buat baby yang model tempat duduk seperti yang ini......

tapi ternyata pas di tokonya, raka langsung milih itu sepeda, duduk diatasnya dan ga mau turun lagi.... jadi ya sudah, we let him chose his bike...tp ada baiknya juga sih... Raka jadi keliatan oke klo disepeda biru itu, ga kayak baby lainnya... he he he..

belakangan setelah hafal peta rumah plus belokan2nya, klo maen sepeda dan merasa belom puas, dia ga mau tuh dibelokin ke arah rumah.. ya cape sih, tp so far enjoy aja lah.... mumpung masih mau didorong, klo dah besar lagi yg ada langsung aja kabur maen sepeda...

luv u Mas Raka

weekend ini ada kemajuan besar yang dicapai raka dan mamanya... :D yaitu : 'Raka sudah ga minta nenen lagi'

yiippppeeeiii....

on his coming 2nd birthday on this 14th dec, i am planning to 'menyapih' raka as i promised my husband to give raka breastmilk for 2 years.

sebenernya kemaren iseng aja pas lagi tidur2an di kamar sama raka, terus gw bilang' gini :

"Ka, raka kan udah besar yaa... harusnya ga nenen lagi, ezar (sepupu raka) aja engga, abi (adiknya ezar) engga, irfan (tetangga gw) engga..."

Raka sih diem aja... cuma dari matanya gw liat dia berfikir dan mencerna omongan mamanya... lucu deh tampangnya....:p

terus pas siang dan seterusnya klo mo dikasih or ditanya pengen nenen ato engga dia langsung ga mau aja gitu.. contoh :

siang :

Q : raka mo nenen ga?

R : engga ah...

Q : kenapa?

R : ga boleh...

Q : sama siapa?

R : Sama Allah....

Q : .........(tercengang!!! Q gak pernah ngajarin gitu rasanya...)

sore :

Kakek uban : Raka mo nenen ga?

R : kan cudah becal....(sambil geleng kepala...)

tapi lucunya klo pas mo bobo siang or malem.. biasanya dikelon kan sambil nenen, krn boleh nenen lagi dia bilang : "ma.. pedang pedang aja yaaa... (maksudnya pegang2...) " sambil akhirnya mengendus - endus dan terlelap dengan mulut menempel pada nenen.... kasian sih... tp mamanya harus konsisten, klo ga mau programnya gagal...

o yaa... mulai ga pake pampers nih...tp masih suka ke bablasan... padahal secara teori dia dah 'dapet' banget!! tapi praktek mungkin kudu pelan - pelan kali yaa...

Raka.. someday when you read this, i want u to know that i always amazing to see of how you get smarter every seconds...

-Q-